>IT’S A BLOODY SHAME

Don’t ever think again that this country where I am living is so great and that we really think of human rights. FORGET IT.
Yesterday I saw on TV that refugee mothers who have applied for citizen ship or refugee status and who are not getting it are put in jail and so are there kids.
There are about 24 children in jail who have done nothing wrong. Their mothers have done nothing wrong, apart from fleeing their country, for what ever reason, may it be economic or political, but to have a better life and have a better life for their kids.
I am ASHAMED that this is happening in my country.
Ashamed and upset.
These laws are inhuman.
What can I do?

>Het is een schande

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Heb net in 1 vandaag het verhaal gehoord van het chinese jongetje Hui. Als uitgeprocedeerde 8 jarige belandde hij met ijn moeder in de cel.

In de CEL ja.

Zeven maanden zat dit jongetje in de cel tot hij de straat op werd gezet als ongewenst vreemdeling. Gelukkig hebben ze vrienden in Zeeland die ze helpen. En wat zegt het jongetje als ze vragen wat hij wil?

IN NEDERLAND BLIJVEN.

Hoe is dat mogelijk? Hier willen blijven waar hij in de cel wordt gezet?

Hoe Nederland met vluchtelingen om gaat. In welke levensstaat zitten deze mensen die die wetten maken en ze uitvoeren?

Defence for Children

>Lesbians have better sex

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WOMEN are more likely to orgasm during lesbian sex than straight sex, a survey reveals.

Just under 69 per cent of women climaxed during their last heterosexual encounter compared to 76 per cent who romped with another female.

Researchers who quizzed 19,000 people across Australia blamed selfish men who concentrated solely on intercourse because it was most “effective” for them. They added that many women with lower sex drives were also left unsatisfied when pressured into having sex — while only 5.2 per cent of men did not orgasm.

Three-quarters of women polled by three Aussie universities said their last sexual activity included some kind of “manual stimulation”. A quarter said their romp included oral sex. The survey was published in the Journal of Sex Research

>What to do on a Sunday?

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As a kid I never liked Sundays. I would have to wear my sundayclothes and my friends from school who were young calvinists were not allowed to play outside.

The best things of Sunday was the church in which I would very often sing in the choir that was high above the church goers. Up there, near the organ, I could laugh and write small notes to and with my friends.

After church we would all go home. My parents were not too strict and would often drive to their friends and we would often go to eat in restaurants. The next day, our teachers would ask what we had done and we would tell them we were in a cafe and they would be shocked.

Nowadays I often go the Buddhist Cultural Centre in the woods near Zeist. We do gongyo there and I meet the Buddhist friends I made. That’s what I did today too. It was the best, again, as always.

I am a Nichiren Daishonin buddhist and a member of the Soka Gakkai International, a lay organisation. We practice by chanting:

Nam myoho renge kyo

which means:

I dedicate my life to the law of cause and effect through sound

but this is one of its meaning as it has a lot more depth than just that. More will follow.

>FLIRTATION – PANAMA – September 22 – 2006 – Dresscode Cowgirls & Vegas. Meet Bianca, she has been organizing these only girls parties for some years now. 1250 girls will be dancing and drinking the night away.
Meet on the left Mathilde, my best friend since the eigthies, aka Santing
the best singer of the Netherlands who is making victory as Glinda in the succesful musical The Wiz. I am the one on the right and I was by far the oldest woman at the party.
Two cuties
And these girls were so cool. Thanks for posing sweeties! Posted by Picasa

>Worked good and hard on my manuscript. I added what I have and came to 54 pages. It is exciting. What is going to happen? Are they going to get eachother? The provisionairy title is: Added Value.
I tried to find out how to make chapters and an index and now I will try to finish for the day.

I live on the ground floor and I saw how the light outside was extraordinairy and I ran into my street to take some pictures. This is Jstraat in Amsterdam, the Western sky at 7.22 PM
And this is Midas, the cat who turns everything into gold.
He turned into gold himself. Posted by Picasa

>I have a friend who says she loves me. Isn’t that great?
But actions are louder than words.
And this friend is often very mean.
What could be wrong with her that she is so mean?
She is rich.
Owns two houses. One in Amsterdam and one in Marbella.
She has a nice lover who does everything for her.
She has a cook who cooks her meals and who she underpays.
She is famous.
Why do I call her my friend?
Right now I have no idea.

>Autumn flower rhyme So here she grows again, first week. It has been sunny here, this in contrast to the wet month of August.
My passionflower is wild and big and beautiful.
This is a general view of my Garden in the City, in the middle of four blocks of houses in the Riverarea in the South of Amsterdam.
And every year she comes again, this sweet smelling rose. Posted by Picasa

>Leve de Penisnijd.

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Gistermiddag hield Dr Maaike Meijer de jaarlijkse Mosse lezing.

LEVE DE PENISNIJD

Mannelijkheidscomplexen bij lesbo’s en andere mensen

“Ik ga me richten op iets wat mij al jaren intrigeert: de penisnijd van meisjes en het verband daarmee met het lesbisch flirten met masculiniteit, en de constructie van een doorgaans als vervaarlijk gezien imago door vrouwen die putten uit de parafernalia van de mannelijkheid. Ik wil dergelijke fascinaties psychologisch en cultuurhistorisch helpen begrijpen. In mijn ogen is penisnijd allesbehalve negatief. Toch lijkt hij nog steeds taboe. Mannelijkheid in vrouwen lijkt veel negatiever te worden gewaardeerd dan vrouwelijkheid in (witte autochtone) mannen. Waarom kan penisnijd niet vertoond worden? Omdat vrouwen zijn aangesteld als de sluitsteen van het gewelf der twee seksen? De mannelijke vrouw – of zij zich nu als zodanig gedraagt dan wel zo kleedt – wordt nog steeds geassocieerd met ‘het lesbische gevaar’, ook in tijd van homo-huwelijk, waarin het lesbische gevaar juist geheel lijkt te zijn geweken. En dat hangt weer samen met de maatschappelijkeassimilatie van lesbo’s. De lesbo is getemd. Ik wil die gekooide tijger weer eens loslaten en vrij latenrondlopen. Ik wil het hebben over de persistente ongemakkelijkheid die de mannelijke vrouw oproept. Wanneer ik af en toen met heterovrienden en -vriendinnen wil bespreken wie ik echt ben – een soort van vrouw, maar dan toch slechts een halve – dan roept dat heel weinig reactie op, behalve een luidkeels en enigszins onhandig zwijgen. Na een tijdje hou ik er maar over op. Mijn niet-lesbische vrienden, waarvan ik er na mijn afscheid van het separatisme een heleboel heb, weten eigenlijk niet hoe erop te reageren. Ik heb duidelijk geen probleem. Nee, ik heb eerder een oplossing – maar een waarbij zij zich niets kunnen voorstellen. Misschien heb ik het nooit helemaal goed uitgelegd.

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